Wise children bring great joy to their parents, while foolish children cause them much grief (Proverbs 10:1; 15:20; 17:21, 25). This motivates parents to guide their children toward wisdom and encourages children to listen to wise advice (19:26–27).
When children need discipline, parents should not avoid their responsibility, as this can harm the child (Proverbs 19:18; 22:15; 23:13–14). Parents should teach their children about the Lord through their own wise and moral behavior (Deuteronomy 6:1–25; Proverbs 20:7; 22:6). They should also tell them about God's great acts in history (Psalm 78:1–8). This knowledge will guide children to obedience and blessings. Children should respect their godly parents (Proverbs 20:20; 30:11–14, 17).
Proverbs focuses on the strength and influence of a united family that loves and obeys God. The book strongly warns against those who would harm a family (Proverbs 6:16–19; 11:29). It greatly praises those who strengthen the family (see 14:1). A family that relies on the Lord can truly thrive (Psalms 127–128).
Passages for Further Study
Deuteronomy 5:16; 6:1–9, 20–25; 7:3–6; Psalms 78:1–8; 103:13; 127:1–128:6; Proverbs 1:8–9; 3:1–2; 4:1–4; 10:1; 11:21, 29; 12:7; 13:22; 14:1; 15:20; 17:21, 25; 19:18, 26; 20:7, 20; 22:6, 15; 23:13–14; 29:15, 17; 30:11–14, 17; Mark 7:9–13; Luke 1:17; 18:29–30; Ephesians 6:1–4